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Mafia Runner to Pastor- 87

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May 9, 2020 1:00 pm

Mafia Runner to Pastor- 87

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May 9, 2020 1:00 pm

"No matter what our issues and pain entail, our struggle is in learning to stop fighting our pain, or running from it, and instead learn to take it to God for His help, be able to find the right people to share our struggles with, and learn to grow and heal with God."  A discussion that Aimee has with guest Dale Fiegland about the transformation in his life from a runner for the mob to helping others through God.

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Aimee Cabo Nikolov is a Cuban American who has lived most of her life in Miami. After many years of healing, finding love, raising a family and evolving her relationship with God, Aimee's true grit and courage led her to pen an honest, thought-provoking memoir. Years of abuse became overshadowed with years of happiness and unconditional love. Now Aimee is the president of IMIC Research, a medical research company, a speaker, radio host and focused on helping others. You can read more about Aimee by  visiting her website.
 
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Struggling and persistently fighting against family put-downs and abuse of every kind turned Dale Fiegland into a gun-toting, knife-wielding, runner for the Mafia, who was addicted to alcohol and drugs–the kind of man God loves to get ahold of and change. When Dale finally stopped fighting God and asked Him for help, miraculous events followed that can only be called a Conspiracy of Grace.

This winsome tale, touched with humor, is shared in plainspoken style by a pastor/counselor unlike any you may have met. Dale’s story helps lift the spiritual veil, enabling readers to see how God works amid life’s gritty, hard-hitting realities. This book will engage and delight you and may challenge some of your ideas about God and fai

Raised in northern Ohio, Dale Fiegland graduated from Anderson College, taught in the inner-city schools of Cleveland, and attained success in business before he joined the ministry. He earned a master of arts degree in counseling from Liberty University, and was the counseling pastor for twenty-five years at Riverside Church in Fort Myers, Florida. Dale holds the title of pastor emeritus and maintains an active counseling practice, specializing in assisting those dealing with drug or alcohol addictions or various forms of abuse. Numerous churches have sought his help as a consultant in handling difficult matters. You can read more about Dale and his memoir by visiting the Conspiracy of Grace website.

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Nobody would have never guessed that in our perfect family of nine children. There would be a pedophile and so it was difficult for people to believe at the time that I said something again for the second time at 15 people at the not want to believe that such outstanding citizens can do such a thing. Dale would you like to share with us about your younger years are monitored by struggled through while you will know global emotional room fire my life. My uncle Bill cared about you with your review by more than no turn from your dark I want to share with my mom will find you started yelling and calling me a lawyer so you know the Mario bottle: while library about myself but felt no shame fill them life and love because he did not receive love in the home because I understand my mother would beat me to and I was the black sheep because he didn't know what love was G believe that's what led you to a life that's dangerous a life that's not in line with God through your know you are not only go driving for tomorrow. I do feel significant and you now and any possible way of doing, he chomps on all the unfortunate circumstances and finds a way to convince you that you're a bad person or that God will not love you or that there is no God or that God sometimes we find out the hard way. So that's what I wanted to talk about Dale let's ship turning point because she didn't have anything that was really hard for you. You didn't have anyone in your life so what was the turning point and let you know is love even fill you did not receive. So when we come back I want to let people know always love even though we've been talking with Bill about trusting God and overcoming obstacles with to hear from you. 30 Fortune life can bring many difficult situations, domestic violence, addictions, poverty, even sexual abuse by your loved ones. The issue is not spinning their book to overcome all obstacles been shouldered with the love of God, your husband and your family. You can succeed. Love is the answer. God is the key word reveals Amy Kabul's life, a warrior who didn't give up and achieve the dream of her life.

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My grandfather no well Bible. No small something about you never know what you're whatever he felt like I was important.

You started the no you your you will always hear what remember school my parents say that I was coming out of my mother five. I was expelled all one person there was even lovable know why no real important value. I am my grandfather made me feel warm.

I didn't understand that at the time. Many people my life to CPL. I wasn't looking for God. What I would call people in my life and as I got older I appreciate you know he looks for you in the most weirdest places Dale mean I did not see stuff like my little bubble and when I was 18 and a lecture solid gold inquiries. I did get the brother off the mop the head of the Mafia and had no clue so I know nothing about the Mafia -like to be well started boxing well went through downtown Cleveland. You and not knowing well that part of the mop you now you know some of the people on the other fighters in the box. No tree. I started liking God. I left home by the age of 15 left home and they provided the place for me to say I thought well you I felt significant hanging around know slowly graduated hanging around people you took me under their wing and thought well really pretty good and I was called a runner didn't know much.

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After I became a path was I became an expert about God, but still have a long way to go to get to know and I think so many times within the Christian world. Pastors may be. Sometimes you just get idea and that's why we need the Holy Spirit. It opens our eyes to choose yes just about done and for Mother's Day. I just want to share nice plan to the mother's happy Mother's Day, including her mother and having cases a mother's love from Helen Rice and mother's love is something that no one can explain its need deep devotion and sacrifice and pain. It is endless and unselfish and enduring, let me but nothing can destroy it or take away is patient and forgiving when others are forsaking and it never feels or falters even tell, the heart is breaking it beliefs beyond leaking when the rolled around, contends and enclose with all the beauty of the rarest brightest chance is far beyond define.

It defies explanation, and it still remains a secret like the mysteries of creation in many splintered miracle man cannot understand and another wondrous evidence of God's tender writing Dale. Would you like to close us in prayer. Thank you for this opportunity. In my mind you here with that word you all of our fellow not be wise in our own.

We acknowledge you and all of our ways. You will have the first time you know, not our own thing. Lord help everybody that helped her to understand that you're there you love unconditionally.

My prayer is that somehow you testimony of ourselves only the power you speak to some of our true word you and thank you Dale for being in the show. Get the conspiracy of grace is a powerful testimony, the power of grace. More information and Dale can be found conspiracy of grace.com.

Thank you Dale so much for being on the show got Dale thank you very much for you are my book. I got a great blog. Through your door. Look at the time so I don't know Dr. and thank each Jasper today making the #get clean. My music takes thanks for the Christian car guy Robbie Gilmore for his continuing guidance and want to send Amy Couto had been here the next week.

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