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HOPE FOR THE CAREGIVER Sept 9 2018

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From Nashville music group, world famous headquarters 15 to W. Lacey. This is hope for the caregiver.

This is the nation's number one show for the family caregiver. I am Peter Rosenberg bring you three decades of experience to state strong and healthy as you take care of someone who is not, and we are so glad that you are joining us right now 800-688-9522 800-688-9522 phone lines are always open and I would love to hear from you. This is we got a lot to cover today.

Great show, and before I get too far down the road here. I want to introduce the man who is has endeared himself to millions. He is the baron of the board of the salt of the sound, the Earl of engineering. The man who really is Spartacus. He is the count of muddy disco John Butler, everyone I see you talk about now. I know I know Joe I don't know it's not a joke. It's just it's just that, well, it was a joke. We had you we were confirming a Supreme Court justice Sen. Cory Booker said he had his eye Spartacus moment okay because he was going to release this document that was. Not supposed to be released and he said I would do it anyway this is this is as close as I'll have to, but I am Spartacus moment, but when he failed to disclose that he'd already been told many, many hours earlier that it was okay to release so really is Spartacus you John you are sporty, I'm feeling great about yourself, you know, for man of my age limited abilities. I went to Marshall artistic for the first time a couple weeks because I look terrible habit out how it paid for and I paid dearly for it but that's okay I still kind of crying by Nick back-and-forth and but I I gotta give a personal moment here. Go on. We we had a grandson born this week. Mom is Tracy Gracie were able to go rush down to Birmingham and we got to hold him when he was. I mean, he was even eight hours old wow and I mean it was just, you know, and so we have two grandsons and it was just it was just marvelous talking graduation and and I gotta give a little bit of a shout out to my wife. You know when she had her car Rick so long ago 35 years ago nobody thought she live much less get married, have children and then see her grandchildren may nobody thought this you know she's had 80 surgeries. Both legs amputated all these things going on and and Parker as he was walk is that he said you know it is. Credit must go to the hospital but it's not know a tough well and I will ask his wife.

That was tough. He didn't actually say she would tell you she was in labor for one hour. Now she is just not fair. She's doing great.

She is doing great but it was not a sad affair. It was the people that would mean as far as that goes, but it was it was there doing great mother and baby are just doing Marcus Lancelot and he's just a delight.

So anyway, we are to time grandparents that which is kind of surreal. You know, because your Gracie doesn't look that old. But I guess I do. Therefore I listen, let's get to get right to it because I got a lot to cover today. We will start off with our caregiver to of the day. Our caregiver tip of the day and this is sound really weird conference for sale.

Have you thought I watch for bunions of the heart right on packet let go.

Let me explain display Lucy.

Let me explain. I I I have a bunion on my left foot I there's a HIPAA violation. Your side and I named him Paul and Rachel my I had this this very painful spot on the left side of my foot and I went to a friend of mine is a podiatrist and he looked at my foot and he said you have a bunion and I suggest that's on the other side of the foot. This is a pain over here.

What's causing this.

He said you have a bunion know he said I bet you have knee problems to don't sit will yeah and he said the bunion is throwing off your gate.

The source of your pain is not the source of your problem and I had to stop for a moment and take some notes I saw all the implications of the statement because a lot of times as caregivers, we tend to think that what where we feel the be acute pain is the problem. I was so fixated on this one area of my foot.

He said he explained to me that all you do is your walking gait is being shifted in your putting pressure on another area and that's was causing the pain. But if you fix this over here. It will balance out everything the issue it what you think is the issue is not really the issue that a term for this psychiatrist is a lot here. It's called the presenting complaint. Will said thank you to make it up to you know if you focus is the wrong but it was it was the presenting complaint was not my problem this that's a good word about which I will write that down right on Spartacus is the presenting complaint was from this present point was that my problem and I would suggest to you as caregivers. The presenting complaint that we have is not our problem. I would suggest to you that it is at the very least you should be glancing in that direction got you got a look at it.

Yeah, it was something that was really pain there but I wasn't going to solve that. I accommodating that painful place. I was solve the problem by accommodating the deformity. The defection defection defective component of my foot and I've learned that I have defective places in my heart and what happens is it throws everything off balance, because the pressure of caregiving and it will throw me into all kinds of situations where my behavior then will reflect these defective places. These character defects if you will now caregiving doesn't cause these things, but it will amplify the it's kind like miracle grow for them and you will if if you've got an issue. The pressure of caregiving because they're such relentless challenges will put so much on that it will force things to the to the top a lot faster. I want to make a silly image that's a caregiving miracle grow for emotional instability:… I'll take a moment just to lift John out right… Hard he tries all he did… You usually do on our I went over my mouth. I think that's what happens with this.

Are you going through that today is that something that's troubling you. It is are you are you looking at something if I could just get this fix that would be okay and also you realize wingman, I may have something deeper over here that's causing me some issues that are being squeezed over here and that's basically what it is when you have a deformity in your foot. It's forcing the rest the foot over to the side of the shoe and it causes it to pitch. So what is forcing in your situation you to react in a certain way that causes a lot of acute pain.

You can blame it on the behavior of someone else… A lot of caregivers who who were to deliver somebody when dimension is that I try to tell us try to over and over and over and over and over will wait a minute, why do you keep telling over and over and over and over because you're dealing with dementia at that point you're dealing with the impairment of disease, you can't. My wife's a double amputee little limp in that context. How about if I just tell her over and over and over again to get up and walk on real legs. You know she can't.

She has to have prostheses to do this. It's very easy to see that what is in the physical, but when you deal with the emotional and the mental impairments much different, much different the cognitive part place plays a role in that and it becomes much different and so we we expect exist like going to the hardware store and demanding to buy a loaf of bread. You can't do it. Who's got the problem.

The hardware store doesn't carry bread that you want or the unrealistic expectations of something that we keep going in there and asking for and getting angry when we don't get we don't get what we think we got half and it took that to see so that I diligently was weird caregiver tip of the day, but bunions of the heart.

It was it was a teachable moment for me what I thought it might be helpful to someone you want your bunion made you rely on parts of your foot that were not used to that sort of strain and if you have something that is weighing on your heart you will rely on other parts of your heart there. Similarly, exact strength, so the whole point will try to do as caregivers is become balanced in the so anyway, if that's it. If that resonates with you. Feel free to give us a call 800-688-9522 you will hear the velvet tones of John on the other and that fun make money with these types moment I suffer ever live a life 800-688-9522 or caregiver tip of days brought you by standing with hope stayed with over the presenting sponsor of the show. I wish you would take just a moment to go look at what were doing out there standing with hope.calm and we have two programmers, one of them is a prosthetic limb outreach. We just got back from a trip to Ghana regular sip some more supplies over there to because they need some things we gotta get some pediatric supplies like for feet and pylons knees and so forth for pediatric limbs were to do and how we do that while we collect used limbs from around the country they go to a local prison here were inmates volunteer to disassemble, use prosthetic limbs.

Maybe a child is outgrown and ended and they take it back to the processors to sit in a corner somewhere we can use those things or somebody you know is passed away and they don't know what to do with the limp will take that because somebody else will walk again. So if you send those to us.

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It standing with hope.com and we have the two programmers, a prosthetic limb ministry, which is for the wounded and the caregiver outreach and those who care for for the wounded and those who care for. That's what we do it standing with hope.com and you can be a part of that today right now and and we would welcome that get involved. Support the show support of sponsor limb there. I just talked to the clinic over and gotta right now people are getting treated right now. We got a young man from from Nigeria that's heading over there would be marketing make sure he has all of his stuff ready forms because he's got a travel good bit to come over there but they can make it while he's there in Ghana for couple days and he'll be able to walk back that he will have to walk all the way back to Nigeria to take the bus. Hey, this is there's hope for the caregiver. This Peter Rosenberger 800-688-9522 will be right back some great you missed the deadline to sign up for health insurance or to sign up for a plan you're not happy with you still have a choice.

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Have you ever struggled to trust God when healthy things happen to you. I'm gracing Rosenberger in 1983 I experienced a horrific car accident leading 80 surgeries in both legs and became questioned why God allowed something so brittle to happen to me. But over time I questions changed and I discovered courage to trust God and understanding along with an appreciation for quality prosthetic limbs led me to establish standing with hope more than a dozen years we been working with the government of Ghana and West Africa, equipping and training local workers to build and maintain quality prosthetic limbs for their own people on a regular basis.

We purchased ship equipment and supplies and with the help of inmates in a Tennessee prison. We also recycle parts from donated lambs. All of this is to point others to Christ. The source of my help and strength, please visit standing with hope.com to learn more and participate in lifting others@standingwithout.com I'm gracing.

I am staining with hope.

Welcome back to the show for caregivers about caregivers hosted by caregiver. I'm Peter Rosenberger.

This is hope for the caregiver, the nation's number one show for the family caregiver were glad that you're with this. The phone lines are open. You're welcome to call in 800-688-9522 800-688-9522 and we are we. We what the show does is we help provide a well lit path to safety for family caregivers who are struggling who are struggling with all types of issues. What I felt in my experience, my 32 years of this, where I've had ample time to fail. More times than most people will ever affect I forgot more failures than most people ever have. But I found that the issues for caregivers are not the day-to-day stuff like healthcare insurance companies all that stuff.

The issues for the family caregiver and correct me if I'm wrong and you certainly welcome to do so, but the issues for the family caregiver are these issues that are matters of the heart where we find ourselves losing control of our own losing control of ourselves. We become angry.

We become resentful will become fearful would become despairing.

All of those things.

Yes, there's a lot of love in there. Yes, there's all the things we do for love but will what you won't do you do for who is at job that was was it was at Grover Washington know and that was but anyway, check out Amanda Amanda about my pain. But what what happens. This is that we become so Ince snared in this that we can't, we can't function in a healthy manner and it takes a while to detangling this and so what I'm on a mission do is to help myself get the tangled healthy caregivers make better caregivers were not helping our love one. If we become so resentful, so upset, so despairing, so depressed that we can't function very well and we were gonna burn ourselves out and then hurt or love, one even more. This is what this is why you do the show. This is what I've seen in my fellow caregivers. So this is that this is where you are.

800 688. Write this down 800-688-9522 and you can call it a day. We got a do or quickly art today's senior moment. I don't know.

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They have just dozens of places across the Southeast here where they have wonderful facilities to help with all types of different needs as your growing older. As you have loved ones who need these things, they got it going on morning point.com and I'm going to some kind of special day because I was looking at some pictures and so forth. And those things are irreplaceable. Don't let them be okay memories to DVD memories to DVD that you've heard of all different kind of companies that do all the stuff will guess what your trusted producer of the show Mr. John Butler himself during the week works at memories to DVD that John, how can they get a hold of you. You can go to memories to DVD online.com or you can call 615-479-8510 and you just sprung this on a why nobody's guy is just for you and Rob and Becky, but can they do it if they're out-of-state absolutely at sycamores all the time were on the south side of downtown Nashville Monday through Friday 9 to 5 or you can come out to the flea market every month. Booth out there now but that's just testers for ad space, but so yeah we we do we take shipping orders from I just ship some stuff to Switzerland so any kind of format pretty much any kind of commercial and I'm sorry a kind of consumer format and we do take care of some commercial formats like you Maddox and an alphabet soup of things that hold slides old slides I I do 35 on your slides.

I do negatives of 35mm film around me very much anything you want to read Dangerfield jokes is filled with the took a lot of pictures of me as a child that would get the negatives, but don't forget your mom's got a box of the stuff in the closet and it's things that you would grab the house caught fire old photo albums, 8 mm, 60 mm film, just the most treasured things in your life. People come in and I people week in my office at least once a week and it's for the good reason not right you want to trust with these valuable pictures of your family and you may be transitioning you may have a family member that's moving into a memory care center like morning point or so forth. And you don't want to lose these things to trust you trust John Butler treasured memories to DVD online memories to DVD online.com or the phone number you John, I'm sorry 615-479-8510 and that's not to the number it's memories TO DVD online they don't. You don't have to package it neatly and cleanly do you you could just dump it all the bows you really should care on you should buy but like you gotta alphabetize the product is about that stuff you actually can do that and whatever organizational system you have on the front and we will maintain throughout the world and return it to you and those in that same form I that's by this, but today senior moment because were having these things in our lives we got all these pictures get all the stuff we don't know what to do with now you do without excuse memories to DVD online.com and I'll put that on Facebook love if you watch on Facebook love and will have it on the podcast later on. Hey, this is hope for the caregiver. This is Peter Rosenberger will be right back some great news.

If you miss the deadline to sign up for health insurance or to sign up for a plan you're not happy with you still have a choice. Medicare is a healthcare sharing program hundreds of thousands of Christians are part of this can save you a lots typical savings for families about 500 bucks a month you can join Medicare anytime it's easy to call and look into it. There's no pressure at all man what a difference it can make 855 25 share. That's 855 25 share. Have you ever struggled to trust God when lousy things happen to you. I'm gracing Rosenberger in 1983 I experienced a horrific car accident leading 80 surgeries in both legs and became I questioned why God allowed something so brittle to happen to me.

But over time the questions changed and I discovered courage to trust God and understanding along with an appreciation for quality prosthetic limbs led me to establish standing with help more than a dozen years we been working with the government of Ghana and West Africa, equipping and training local workers to build and maintain quality prosthetic limbs for their own people on a regular basis. We purchased ship equipment and supplies and with the help of inmates in a Tennessee prison. We also recycle parts from donated lambs. All of this is to point others to Christ. The source of my help and strength, please visit standing with help.com to learn more and participate in lifting others standing without.com. I'm Gracie. I am staining with help welcome back to the show for caregivers about caregivers hosted by caregiver. This is Peter Rosenberger I'm so glad that you're with this and I do feel good like that.

Other than what I've been watching a documentary on James Brown, John and if you got your teeth teeth and hair all right to be all right. Listen the number. Call 800-688-9522 800-688-9522 if you want to be on the show and you can also follow along on Facebook live. We are at hope for the caregiver on Facebook love and you get to hear how the sausage is made. I was listening not going but don't test because it was just say that there is a book of the columns will become a school and she's like I love hearing behind-the-scenes stuff that I think it well. I love you for your lack of judgment and lack of taste because of seeing stuff… Kevin goofy and also the caregiver podcast is the caregiver podcast.com we put the shows out there. We also put little snippets of things out there that you can hear from from our your caregiver but I know this or not, but are are your caregiver minute are on almost 300 stations daily how something and he told well. They've increased so we get those a lot and we put those out there on the podcast as well. Caregiver podcast.com and couple of the things there's an article that I wrote that you also can go see and I hope the caregiver and it steady without.com either one of those websites but hope for the caregiver.com you can see this article recall outreach. Our new national pastime and evidently it it was kind of a hit because USA Today picked it up. There is no one I knew you that USA Today had to had picked up some your stuff.

I'd I didn't think this one up and it's it's out there and you can read it and it's kind of, I was Proud of. It was while you talk about it on the II see what you think at hope for the caregiver.calm and so that that's a little bit of business.

We have a the book is out hope for the caregiver. The book it's in its fifth printing now and you can get the audiobook. All this available to Amazon he download audiobook today and then the sauce for the caregiver. It's all out there and Gracie's been working on a new CD that's coming and you you love that and she's got some news singles that she's been releasing periodically through through this thing and and there's one that's coming up that I'm very excited about, and it should be available on iTunes this week and it's going to be. It's called, you must remember spring and the reason I'm excited about this. This assist that's all that was written by Michelle Garon who wrote the thing from Brian Sonia member that I do remember that and then Alan Marilyn Bergman wrote the lyrics that they are Oscar-winning trio of Everett salt together.

This one didn't get it at Tony Bennett and Barbra Streisand of record this but it wasn't a huge song is a very difficult song to do, but the reason why it was important because Gracie sang this in studio, accompanied by my piano professor from Belmont.

Go to gets better.

He accompanied her when she auditioned at Belmont for music scholarship for her Rick and this is the first recording the two of them of ever done together and he picked the song out and it is a beautiful song Gracie. After she's had tears come to us and so did Chris Latham and I we were there in the booth and she said I was singing this to my 17-year-old self. You must believe in spring and it it's it's a beautiful beautiful song went with what you'll hear you got a love it and John is playing. He he is he was and he was Mafia professor played our wedding played in her son's wedding. I just love them and what you'll hear this, it's fabulous.

It should be available this week. I will go to the phone call here because we got Trinity on the phone. Trinity is on the phone with this you you were one of our original listeners and callers so many years ago when the show started. You might check with Kiwi Kiwi I what you got on your heart monitor first on how you feeling I might not ever let your show again because your caregiver day is making me think I don't want to confront bunions of the heart and will. It was that it was an odd tip. But it's you have learned as a caregiver. I cannot push a wheelchair with clinched fist so I have.

How is that resentment going but no II guess it was a teachable moment for me. It doesn't have to be one for you. It doesn't have to be okay you know I look at her erratic brain injury and continual headache and now the doctor are aiming at all kinds of other think about the headaches so and I'm not hearing you but I'm watching you on Facebook and you're getting all the and motion just listening just listening like a good host of the night. Yes, I talk with my hands and John makes fun of me for that, but I am listening to the word no. I II think that you are no continue continue don't know your you're making it confront that my preparation headache could be being caught by all these other bizarre things they're talking about. Like I'm getting headaches computer at the bunion so thank you for that. Who knows who knows what the question is how are you living with the headaches not very well not very well now, our mutual friend Felt, but something on Facebook week.

Being something for the pain I'm trying that today to see if that'll help it's only been 26 months of headaches will it's like when you go to the doctors as Dr. hurts when I do this little do that anymore. But now no I mean I'm really trying to say thank you you that made that made me realign my thinking.

Thank you. You will caregiver but I'm encouraged her to a character and quality time with Today and You Are You Are Indeed Encouraging That Caregiver and He Is Never Far from My Thoughts and in My Heart for What He Has To Deal with and for Those You Don't Know This on to Tell You Just Understand That It's It's a Significant Issue That Her Son Is Dealing with and We Want to You As a Caregiver. I Look for Teachable Moments Wherever I Can Find Them and Sometimes There in the Podiatrist Office.

You Know Sometimes Things Happen, but I Think That If We If We Are Willing to to Learn from Them and for Me That Was Just a Teachable Moment for Me That I Have To Confront My Stuff at the End of the Day.

I Can't. It's a Reporter Once Asked Me See If This Resonates with You Mother of a Reporter Once Asked Me. So What Is the Toughest Thing You've Ever Dealt with As a Caregiver. Now, Given the Resume That I Rattled off Earlier in the Show 80 Surgeries, Multiple Amputations Well over $10 Million 100+ Doctors Treated My Wife. She Lives with Relentless Pain She's Coded She's Going to the Seizure. See All Those Kinds of Things and so the Most Difficult Thing That I've Dealt with As a Caregiver in My Response without Even Bat and Was Hands down Knowing What Is Mine and What Is Not Mine. And When I Can Walk That Line with a Little Bit More Calm Us Knowing What Is Not Mine to Have To Carry and Not in and Release That the Real Is I Can't Do Anything about That. That's What I Start Growing As a Caregiver, Because What I'm Trying to Overreach and Grab onto Things Just Don't Belong to Me That I Cannot Fix.

I Cannot Change You Can Think about. That's When I Pop You like It Causes so Much Stress in My Life and in the Lives of People around Me and My Wife Is Probably Saying Amen Is a Is a Say That Now, but It Does Because It's How We Really React to Situations Often Times That Are the Big Stressors and That What I Would Caregiver for My Mother, My My Largest Problem with My Attitude in My Heart I Feel like That's That's Where the Big Battle for Us Is Caregivers Are Yes There Are Things Such As Looked on Facebook Loving Gracie Posted. She Was Obviously Resonating with That Particular Statement but but but It's Not a One and Done Issue That Caused the One and on Issues. What I Mean by That Are I Don't Have To Be Retrained on How to Give an Injection I Don't Have To Be Retrained on How to Fight with an Insurance Company. Here's a Little Tip on Dealing with an Insurance Company, When They Bring a Knife to Fight.

You Bring a Calculator and You Don't Have To Argue with Them about the Humanity of Covering a Bill You Get You Deal with Math. Math Works, That's Awful. And All the Appeals of One with Gracie over This to an $11 Million Saga That We've Had and and so That's One and Done. Once I Got It I Don't Have To Repeat It.

But These Things of the Heart.

The Resentment, the Despair That Angered the Rage, the Fear, All Those Things Mannose Things Just Keep Coming at You Daily, Sometimes Hourly, Sometimes Minute by Minute.

This Track If You What My Mother I'd like with Moderate Mental Illness. My Whole Life and Then When That Magic Again and Everybody Else Knew That Her Only Problem Was Hurt Her Child to a Problem Child. I'm an Only Child, Felt the Problems. Who Was That That Was Me, but It Was I Was so Angry at Not Having a Functional Mother. My Whole Life and Now Having to Be Hurt Caregiver and It Was My Rage Was My Problem Not Heard of the Not Her Mental Illness, Not Dementia.

It Was My Rage and Attitude. Yeah, You Get Mad at a Disease How to Get Mad at Diabetes How to Get Mad. It Disease and Mental Illness Is a Disease yet You It It Doesn't Do Any Good to Get Mad at It and so I Taught A Lot Of Caregivers Who Are Taking Care Of a Parent Right Now Who Have Unresolved Issues with That. I Mean Really Painful Unresolved Issues and Now They're Having to Do Very Uncomfortable Task for Them. What If You Could Just Give Them a 30,000 Foot View or Say Something Speak Speak Something into Their Life on How You Made Peace with Some of That Stuff. I'm Trying to Remember That I Moderate a Family-Friendly Radio Show.

You Can Talk to John Later My Language Is Not Family Friend. I Finally Took a Deep Breath Away Facility Where She Was Kept Warm Steak with Dad and the People Adored Her and They Would Then I Have That New Conflict at the Staff at the Facility Were Angry That I Wasn't Showing up Every Day with Lunch like a Good Southern Daughter Should Do and I Had to Let Them Have Their View and I Did Survive.

I Had Four Young Children at That Point. So I Just Had the Day That My Attitude Was Destroying Me What You Think. It Wasn't Anything to My Mother It Was Nine at Me so I Just Had to Face That and I Didn't Have Your Shelter to Rely on It Would've Been Such a Help Back in the Early 90 so I Just Appreciate What You're Doing for Others That You Can Have the Opportunity for Me Will Have It for Me. I Mean, You Know That's I Think That's One of Things.

Those of Us Who Live, You Know, Kind of Gone in Those Hinterlands by Ourselves and and and and Isolation so Forth. We See That If We Want to Be Able to to Offer Some Kind of Path to Others of Things That We've Learned This Is What We've Learned the Hard Way. My Mother Told Me One Time down in the Coast of South Carolina. I Love This Phrase I Love This Picture She Painted You See These Trees along the Coast along the Beach There That Are Close to the Beach and They Are All Smooth on the Side of the the Water Where the Sand in the Wind and the Water so Forth Smooth Them All out and They're Kind of Misshapen and the Ones behind Them Get to Stand up Straight and Have Nice Bark and Everything Else Are Not Worn down and and Then and She Said She Said That's Kind of the Way It Is for Those You Who Blaze a Trail You Get a Little Bit Misshapen to Get Kind of Polished up a Little Bit by the Wind and so Forth to Get a Break All That Come Stuff and Then She Looked and She Stopped from of the She Smiled at Him. She Said, but You Get the Best View and I Thought, You Know, Okay, I'll Take That and and so That's Will Take the Wisdom of Mom out to, Wisdom, and Bubbly, about My Parents Just Celebrated Their 60th Anniversary Yesterday 60 I Got Leveled There Madly in Love with Each Other Crazy, Crazy Love Each Other so but It's It's I Think That I Think What You Said Though, Is Learning to Step Back Away from a Detach from It, Because Those Things Will Take You down in a Bad Place and I'm so Grateful That You're Not in a Bad Place That You You Will Do Laugh and You Cut up and You Make Me Laugh so Hey Listen, We Gotta Go to the Break Here. Truly Thank You for the Call 800-688-9522. This Is Hope for the Caregiver 800-6885 22, This Is Peter Rosenberger Were so Glad That You with This. We What You What You Have Get to a Place of Safety Where You Can Detach from Whatever It Is That You're Caring I Want You to Be Able to Breathe Deeper and Walk a Little Calmer and below the More Joyful in the Midst of This, That's Our Goal on the Show and and Stick with a Stick with Relevant More to Go, No Go. It Will Be Right Back Some Great News. If You Miss the Deadline to Sign up for Health Insurance or to Sign up for a Plan You're Not Happy with You Still Have a Choice. Meta-Share Is a Healthcare Sharing Program Hundreds of Thousands of Christians Are Part of This Can Save You a Lots Typical Savings for Families about 500 Bucks a Month You Can Join Medicare Anytime It's Easy to Call and Look into It.

There's No Pressure at All Man What a Difference It Can Make 855 25 Share. That's 855 25 Share. Have You Ever Struggled to Trust God When Lousy Things Happen to You. I'm Gracing Rosenberger in 1983 I Experienced a Horrific Car Accident Leading 80 Surgeries in Both Legs and Became I Questioned Why God Allowed Something so Brittle to Happen to Me.

But over Time I Questions Changed and I Discovered Courage to Trust God Understanding, along with an Appreciation for Quality Prosthetic Limbs Led Me to Establish Standing with Help More Than a Dozen Years We Been Working with the Government of Ghana and West Africa, Equipping and Training Local Workers to Build and Maintain Quality Prosthetic Limbs for Their Own People on a Regular Basis.

We Purchased Ship Equipment and Supplies and with the Help of Inmates in Tennessee Prison. We Also Recycle Parts from Donated Lambs. All of This Is to Point Others to Christ. The Source of My Help and Strength, Please Visit Standing with Help.com to Learn More and Participate in Lifting Others That Standing without.com.

I'm Gracie. I Am Staining without Oh Yes It Comes for Some of Us like Me Living on the Edge of Sanity. Sometimes We Just Cross That Will Hey, Welcome Back to the Show for Caregivers about Caregivers Hosted by Caregiver. This Is Peter Rosenberger I'm so Glad You're with Us If You Want to See More about What Were Doing Standing with Hope.com and I Gotta Put out One before We Get Back to the Phone Was One Quick Request. If You Know Somebody That Has a Used Prosthetic Limb That They Don't Need Anymore.

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