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Life is for living. Let's partner for all of it. Learn more@edwardjones.com. We didn't we All heard the folk wisdom comes to romance opposites attract to the border, suggesting that the attraction is automatic and guaranteed unnecessarily. We smell when one of the parties is of a personality type that is widely misunderstood face-saving report cover story. Think fast and speak out some of the keys to success so we can told that things might be about to change. Do you think will ever get to the point where people are shushing extroverts at the conference table I could see it on us and being like a revenge of the introverts should there's a quiet revolution going on will tell you more later on Sunday morning. We were laughing is a specialty of comedian Louis Henderson this morning we telling us how we doesn't know the ruse makes a big difference. Comedian Louis Anderson is in the middle of what he calls getting up brand-new coat of paint that brilliantly colored and it's almost impossible to recognize them and try Coney Island.

That's the problem with that one. I would've done it earlier. Had I known the clothes were so comfortable that because I'm tired of being lowered in the pants. 65-year-old man is fast becoming TVs new favorite mom was ahead Sunday morning. One of those stories and more just ahead. Opposites attract orbs that we been told. In reality, however, it is not so simple.

Our cover story is reported by face-saving when Brian Baker first made eyes on Randy John's in Sacramento California go.

It was love at first sight that I would like to meet her like that.

We'd like to tell you it was a match made in heaven that it felt like we were making on different levels like completely. A lot of us were talking at each other and she was probably doing a better job of listening. I was while all couples have their ups and downs for the problem seemed insurmountable. Certain exhausted from his relationship being in a relationship are in a relationship with Brian mission trip with Brian. My personality is high-energy interface, but also tends to be impulsive. Randy told Brian she needed space if he sees a problem tax that I quickly just stop. So they split up it all boiled down to clash of personality. I am far and where you on that scale myself an introvert understanding personality types can get complicated. They put extroverts tend to be charismatic, while introverts are quiet types. Extroverts are hailed as good talkers right on the other hand, are usually the ones listening while extroverts recharge their batteries through interaction with others. Introverts re-energized when they're alone. Introverts contribute so much to society because of who they are, not in spite of who they are.

Author Susan Kane wrote a bestseller that struck a chord by bringing attention to the often misunderstood introverts 1/3 to half of the population are introverts. The book success led to attend toxic bleach which today has over 19 million YouTube hits now.

Kane leads movement.

She calls the quiet revolution revelation have a six percentage of the population who are subtly discounted for something that goes to the core of who they are. Kane says there's some history behind that and talk about moving from a culture of character personality. Yeah, the culture of character within the 19th century, when we lived in small towns alongside people pretty much known all your life and so people could judge each other in terms of who the other person really was begun in the 20th century, when you have industrialization and people moving out into the cities and suddenly there living alongside strangers who they needed to impress really quickly. What became important with what first impression you make a culture that's long favored the charisma and likability of the extrovert introvert has been left on the sidelines.

You went through the thousands and thousands of letters that I get the word he would see most frequently is the word permission. Finally, I have permission to be who I am. You think will ever get to the point where people are shushing extroverts at the conference table I could see it actually honestly being like a revenge of the introverts author and psychologist Scott Barry Kaufman is a professor at the University of Pennsylvania. He's made a career of studying creative intelligence and personality traits.

One of the most exciting findings in modern personality science is that all her personality traits can change the word extrovert and or work environment surrounded by introverts action expert attend to become more introverted and vice versa about introverts that they don't like people.

The other myth is the idea that introverts don't make good leaders and there's actually data showing that introverted leaders often deliver even better outcomes than extroverted leaders do, whether it occurs by the clerk of major leaders like Microsoft's Bill Gates billionaire investor Warren Buffett Facebook founder Mark suck former Avon CEO Andrea John all self-proclaimed introverts. As for the extroverts.

Facebook's Sheryl Sandberg says she's one so do Bill Clinton, George Bush and founder of Black entertainment television, Robert Johnson. The main difference is style extroverted leaders are strong motivators click on their feet.

Introverted leaders prefer to think things through before speaking up or moving forward, which is misconstrued for shyness, disinterest when introverts are supported.

We miss out on the missing out on well on half the population to begin. Introverts tend to be passed over or not groomed in the first place for leadership position and that's one of the things that we really want to fix how many of you would describe yourselves, but there is extroverts first. That's why Kane has taken her shell on the road speaking to students and business leaders about how to bring the best out of their introverts, not like one is better than the other. It's the third different. We really need them both and says Scott Barry Kaufman.

This is true in most aspects of our lives and personal relationships over the long haul both partners to attend the kind of meet each other in the middle somewhere, but it kind the earliest stages of relationships you can have like a very extrovert part of her and report and they can make a really great match because they are seeing something in each other. The they don't have Brian and Randy may have learned that the hard way which a program like that was a huge moment in my life where I said this is about things ever have with me. I don't want this to lo and behold one of Susan Kane speaking tours broader to Brian's workplace where he had the opportunity to share how her book changed his life as all your emails. Oh my God this is why this is why were talking at each other and not to each other like I need to listen to her need to shut up and let her talk. This was just a journey of understanding for Brian or Randy had her own awakening during their split, especially when Brian told her he was moving to Seattle to start a new job, then suddenly it hit me like, well, he just gave me ultimate space space yeah is like fell apart and saw all these other things that like he contributed to my life like brought out the end. That's how opposites can move beyond mere attraction because rabies introverted doesn't mean she's shy or timid when she's strong and courageous and sunk in some respects, fearless, shortly after our interview, Brian asked Randy to marry him.

She said yes.

This time he heard her loud and clear and now the page from our Sunday morning owner July 8, 1950, 68 years ago today Harry S Truman named Gen. Douglas MacArthur command of US and allied forces in Korea communist North Korea attacked us out just a few weeks before.

Within months of taking command. MacArthur, a World War II hero halted and outflanked North Korean invaders driving the back trying to turn led coalition to fall back. MacArthur lobbied Pres. Truman for permission to bomb Truman during a wider war with you and in April 1951 he fired MacArthur for insubordination controversial move that stunned the nation.

Upon returning to the US, MacArthur delivered a farewell address to Congress invoking words from a British Warsaw never got Gen. Douglas MacArthur died in 1964 at the age of 84 as the Korean War ended with a full-fledged peace treaty armistice in 1953 in Korea has remained divided and in the headlines. To this day and we certainly know how to leave them laughing and as I discovered one of the keys to his success is his ability to laugh at himself.

There's one thing comedian Louis Anderson.

We sit straight from the get-go that probably can laugh about it so he cracked jokes about this on the dog again one day was folding my underwear and I held them up and I went oh my God, these are big.

I had no idea when you're put them on you not thinking. These are big underwear. But when they're out in front and they block the sun.

I was shocked at how big my underwear were just wearing underwear. You will please you you poking fun at his weight ever since his debut on the Tonight Show with Johnny Carson way back in 1984 I can say alarm in between meals. So bear with citric you know I'm a new job. I just love ago.

I just had my ancestry done. I am 20% Norwegian and 80% butter from the Land O Lakes Drive, you know, those are such good jokes as much as you were doing drugs is much as he wanted people to laugh at them hurt a little bit to yeah it did it did hurt the laughs always come before his personal pain and there has been a lot.

Anderson broke the 10th of 11 children in a housing project in St. Paul, Minnesota sweet-and-sour stew he called his mom was sweet, his dad, and abusive alcoholic with some and eating for me is like my dad's drink.

Yes he makes fun of that to him when he was out like sometimes like that would be so out my mom go check to see if he's breathing you check to see what is not really concern. I don't do this just for the laugh. No way to healing.

I think it's healing them. But more than that people don't feel so alone.

If people know that I had the you know my butt kicked and my dad was cruel to me if they know that I and I'm still going. Maybe they can keep going. This humor wasn't only reviewing Queen your mom over to this point all things that make no sense to you. Shirley's daughter works not building, finding his own family from a true yet he says UT's current role it hits the closest to home.

I just want you to be as Oliver wanted yes playing Zach Galifianakis his mother on the epic series. I'm here. This is no joke. He says he takes the part of Christine baskets very seriously. The last time you leaving them in.

We followed him into the makeup trailer and for the next two hour watched Louis Anderson transform. He went from the self-deprecating gap to comic. Most of us know were not so bad looking middle-aged woman that he says he recognized right away is the same thing cheeks and everything you're definitely her son Leonard her brood right is Ma or Osama Anderson passed away nearly 3 decades ago and yet for the last three seasons we Anderson says he's been channeling her once in costume. He prefers no one calling Louis on set is pretty convincing Molly cuddling mom even in person when you know it's him or feel different was your caller was. I want you to forget that we Anderson is playing the same basket. You do that's what I want.

This is people say what you want to do next. I go I just play amount again. Humor fixes horse that he was Galifianakis shows co-creators who cast Anderson as his mom and put immigrants do whatever you want but wanted to try out the new headrest you know it's it's hard to have your own show would not be the most popular one that I find I like it actually fallible and always motherly Christine baskets was a hit Anderson Tacoma primetime Emmy for the first season was nominated for a second one last year.

It's a great part. Christine baskets as every woman there's a whole bunch of Christine baskets in the world and nobody's represented and I am is no other way to explain his success other than he believes his long-suffering mom must be right there with because you know that character is in a lie, steal all her nuance in all her those little locks and disapproving stop back. You know she's got the starring role that she deserves, played by my mother that her son pain. The great thing about my mom was she protected us. She took all the brown and this is such a great repay in tribute.

I get to pay her back just finished writing his late mom a series of letters is compiled and will book recounting all she's missed so she passed and now her spirit is still making a difference. It's her humanity and her love that I think people are connecting. His mom however would want to give up his stand so that explains why we found in backstage at this comedy going over index cards full of brand-new material jokes that we Anderson still makes no one's expense, but hits you know what I really love if they completely forgot their troubles once completely no matter what or how big the trouble was if they if they could just forget it for one second before there were podcasts there was television. Remember, see what's new under the sun every Sunday morning young athlete ready and willing to go the extra length they were the bad news Bears of swimming going to coach Alex we deem high school in Arlington Texas says you can't overstate their underachievement. Our goal every meeting was to finish the race across the pool across the pool. Really we measure our success on not getting disqualified because that was the standard four years ago Gerald Hodges made the T perhaps the only kid to ever make a high school swim team without a clue how to swim. We had to get anybody got a swale he couldn't across 5 yards, let alone 25 yards was the really nobody better know. Actually, he at least learn how to not drop even finish some races, albeit long after the other to Don and told him yes.

Which is interesting because on dry land.

Gerald is a remarkable left basketball team. I think so preacher soccer team for positive for wide swing.

I felt like if I can handle not being good at something and how can I consider myself no successful person `bears repeated. If I couldn't handle not being good at something, but how can I consider myself a successful person to Gerald setting yourself up for failure is actually the key to future success. Especially if you can somehow manage to master your weakness and by the start of his senior year, Gerald had actually improved a lot, but no one really knew how much it approved until a big regional meeting earlier this year the 200 yard medley relay top two teams qualify for state as usual.

Siggy was pretty much in last place with 50 yards to go.

And that's when Gerald mind this level making up any significant time is nearly impossible unless maybe you've got something less maybe there's an extra drive deep within. Anyone who knows what does this. Whatever the kid couldn't swim just sent his team to state hey my life so far.

From now on whenever you think anything is possible the computer whenever you think the easiest best think again. Mo obituaries a podcast on matters of death and life from Mo Rocca week the federal ministration washed his hands of responsibility ever more tightly packed points. He is busy summer travel season.

Burbank says something we all can do to ease airplane overcrowding.

I was on a flight recently when something very unfortunate happened. A tall tall man sat right in front of me and I knew it was only a matter of time before he would be committing that unspeakable act of reclining his seat years ago this would have been such a big deal. Flying was a civilized event. The airlines gave us room to stretch out people wore suits help. They even let you smoke, but these days things have changed.

They shrunk our personal passenger space down to the point where you need to slather yourself up in Crisco just a wedge into your seat and forget about choosing exactly where that seat will be the way it works these days is you buy the ticket and then they tell you it's another hundred dollars if you want to actually be inside the airplane.

Anyway, as our flight took off.

I brace for impact. The impact of the seat in front of me hitting my knees when we reached cruising altitude, something amazing happened. Nothing, by which I mean this very tall man in front of me decided not to recline his seat. It was a random act of kindness and one that stayed with me to this day. It also got me thinking.

Why do we recline our seats on the plane.

It's not like it makes that much of a difference hears me sitting straight and hears me reclined reclining your seat improves your experience a 1% and ruins the experience of the person behind you by 99%. Economists call this trade-off.

Being the jerk I say it's time for a national movement.

I know another one just hear me out. If we all agree not to lean our seats back. We can make the world at least the world of air travel.

A slightly better place. I'm calling it the decline to recline movement were to have T-shirts and everything we were to have buttons but they don't let those through security anymore. Don't get me started. Anyway, next time you're on a plane and you're about to recline your seat, think about the person behind you and practice a little kindness. You never know one day the knees you save may be your own fruits and vegetables straight from the farm make for a welcome taste of summer. Turns out they can also make for a pretty successful restaurant or Connor Knighton, Scott, so what all is going here so we got Asian green mix over here. Those of you going to the stirfries in different salads and and whatnot with God.

Radishes here the farm to table movement is mostly about knowing where your food comes from meniscus huge yes so this is a great example of what would end up in our kimchee at the restaurant chef and beaten Roth down to the 10th of a mile from this farm to that table at the restaurant. How far is that 20.9 miles eight something driving it a few times.

It's a journey that began beaten Roth's spice kitchen hip upscale restaurant in Cleveland, Ohio were colorful pickle boards and dishes like watermelon terrine highlight local ingredients the hell of it is served on the base of couscous, pesto, pesto is a pesto made from a lot of the vegetable trimmings that would end up in a compost bucket, carrot tops, parsley stems the really using everything from the farm as much as we can. It's a shame to see something that you've touched so many times end up in a bucket. This will be a little bit green still running a restaurant wasn't hard enough. This ex-Marine with a culinary school background decided to try rubbing the food himself. He moved his wife and two young children under 13 acres. This is their farm.

Technically, it's all a farm.

This is all government soil the beaten Roth's moved out of the city and in to a national Park.

This was just one of the many hundreds of farms that were in Cuyahoga Valley.

Pamela Barnes is a Ranger at Cuyahoga Valley National Park situated between Cleveland and Akron before this land became a park. It was farmed by generations of Ohioans, but eventually the small family farms here fell into disrepair. The story of farming in this valley.

It's part of what were charged protect and preserve so that was the story that we needed to figure out how are we going to bring back to life today. These farms are thriving again developed a plan to lease the properties to entrepreneurs submitted application 11 are currently up and running, fill up on baskets of produce farmers market become point for families to go this way. The total first go to many visitors. This is their first time on a farm. Even Roth requires every member of his restaurant staff to come out and see the place for themselves first course is the super wide slice of feet along the base of the plate farming inside of the national Park also comes with its own unique set of challenges we can take care of rodents and varmints the way we use to you in a privately owned garden or farm so we basically have to plant a little extra because records and hawks there, stop.

Even Roth's biggest benefit of coming to live here in Cuyahoga Valley has been the opportunity to raise children on this land.

It's both a playground and a classroom. The life lessons that they're gaining from being surrounded in a natural environment. This is their basis for their decision-making. For the rest of their lives. Everything emanates from this experience. Cultivating the perfect experience something even Roth talks a lot about possible guests may leave without ever realizing the beat Mo lay underneath her pork loin came from a vegetable painstakingly grown in the national Park. I don't really want people to appreciate the challenge that was overcome to get that to the plate. I want them to appreciate the experience and the texture and the flavor and the aroma and all the things that matter right.

No one wants to eat the food from the said chef. I don't think that's something anyone eating beaten Roth's food needs to worry about some bighorn twins over here right now earning a living off the land hears serial it's pretty clear he couldn't be happier. There we count drawings.

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