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Just Because You Have To Do It By Yourself Doesn’t Mean You Have To Do It Alone

The Christian Car Guy / Robby Dilmore
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March 17, 2018 1:05 pm

Just Because You Have To Do It By Yourself Doesn’t Mean You Have To Do It Alone

The Christian Car Guy / Robby Dilmore

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You still in the fee and will you Christian Car Guy radio show and you have to do it by yourself been you have to do it alone. You listen carefully. Just because you have to do it by yourself doesn't mean you have to do it all alone will years ago Napa auto parts for use that slogan you got elected.

That's lovely.

I love that it's a rank surgery to my ears this morning when I heard it for the very first just because you don't have to just because you have to do it by yourself doesn't mean you have to do it alone is where meant that was the Napa auto parts slogan because they were trying to show you that they could follow you through a car repair is a big part of what Napa know how you knows all about advertising for Napa, but the concept is there. There's nothing like feeling helpless under the hood with no clue why your car won't start, or its overheating alone and you think, wow, I don't know if anybody can help me with this one.

Not true ally straight from hell. How easily right. I bind that myself. Someone knows what's wrong and can and will help you. So maybe you feel all alone this morning. Hey were here to help if we can. There's thousands I mean thousands of other car folks listening as well.

So far, but I don't have the answer.

We would love for you test the knowledge of our listeners, 866-348-7884's number to call in it surprised me 30 years. How many times you in our stamp and we got a call and in some I knew exactly and it had the exact same problem and sandlot light on it for somebody sent.

This is how much were not alone Bob.

They lay in thousands of people so call us with your poser what is it that you think wow I don't know if anybody can help me 866-348-7884. Well, asking for help, admitting I can't go it alone. Well, lots of wounds pride fear that there's missing this all over the place and Madden actually later today on the master journey radio show which I recorded earlier in the week we talked about. That's an orphan spirit that we think were in this by ourselves.

So God kinda had me on this lesson plan all week long and last night my wife and I went to see I can only imagine which is a phenomenal movie about Bart Millard Mercy me's lead singer in the song.

You know, I can only imagine. I imagine you've heard it in the story behind the song is what that movies about lawyers and spoiler alert. Bart writes the song if you guess that already, but an unique part of the movie was that Bart's Journal was from way back when he was 10 years old.

He kept a journal because he went to a Christian camp that Christian camp. They had him write a journal or a big part of him writing that song were entries from that journal when he was 10 years old when and so here he had proof.

If you think about it that he was alone.

Even back when he was 10 years old and he had it. It was a written record. Bart wasn't alone in his is report as a result of that. If you think about it. I mean millions of lives were changed. With this simple little phrase. It was written in the Journal of the 10-year-old boy. I can only imagine I think about it, but there was a written record that part wasn't alone and so a minute ago I was watching me go crazy to try to find this journal in mind as I have recovered it.

My very first journal SF after I watched the movie last night.

I went and got it tickle me that other people lose staff I'm constantly losing everything. I miss temporary or temporarily display misplacing stuff and so yeah, I thought I'd misplace this for minutes can import because it is my first journal and I started writing this Bob when I was 39 years old and just yesterday it was 23 years. So while you're watching is on Facebook we stream live here is the journalists is that and when you look at this very first entry. The very first thing that God gave me to tell me out on the night of July 25, 1995 in prayer. God asked me to write down my views on my relationship with the Lord. Day by day. Now I it doesn't say this in the entry but I know I was on airplane. I was praying in the middle of the night is on my way to Denmark and I was praying and God showed up and he gave me that he said I want to write these adventures day by day of your life and and here's a written record right now, or talk about not being alone and not I was so I looked at this movie last night.

You can only imagine Tammy and I absolutely love that I can't tell you how much I think you watch that movie. I mean, is this absolutely amazing.

But as I'm looking for my journal.

I realized by the dates. The Journal almost immediately like wow I started writing this journal in July 1995 I was diagnosed with cancer in April 1996, so I realized quickly that while these are this can have those entries so I when I started to look at these things and you know what I found out I had totally forgotten what it happened. There were things in here that I just completely lost on my mind and you know what I was thinking the enemy is come to steal, and you have memories where God showed up and did something amazing for you and you don't have it. If you don't have your journal well if I had my drug which I have right here. I want to read. This is from April 16, 1996 actually was when I knew I had cancer, but I didn't know how bad right so here's the entrances. Thank you Jesus for the spiritual battle I've experienced since Friday night Sunday night while under attack. I pray for Jesus to help me in the middle of my night fear. You remember the beginning that song little while ago. It talked about when you're in the dark. I've always been afraid of the dark.

My wife would tell you that and NEC. There is my journal entries still struggling with that fear of the dark and actually night terror may have been a better way to describe what I was feeling that night, and here it says check this out Bob. It says over there on the pillow, there was a check and amazingly immediately. I knew what it meant. Thank you Jesus for showing me you had paid for me and I am yours thank you Jesus that was April 16, April 18 and you can see this writing in a journal about this you're looking at are the people on Facebook it says wow I'm in serious trouble by physical standards. Thank you. You know I've got androcentric T-cell lymphoma which appears to be a very deadly disease. I mean, that was in just a few hours of me writing. The other thing I'm writing this and I totally forgot about this check Bob.

The reason I bring it out this morning as I go.

Wait a minute. This is been clearly stolen from me such a precious precious memory had it not been written down. It wouldn't be there and and and so the point of that is in you can wonder Robbie, how does it get the cars will here's the thing. I have known over the years. The people that keep good maintenance records. Now this isn't clear to what I'm describing here, but I'm just telling you that when you have a record of what's done to your car it's it's phenomenally helpful if you ever go to sell the car or you're trying to track what's happen. I forgotten one's last time I met Brixton once last time I change the oil. If I change the timing belt. All those things are written records from that sent them. I've always been deficient in that, and it was something we had to get going into junkyard to keep up because we had so many checks on one was all change in this one was a little change in that when and when you have in three red tractors three Robaxin five caterpillars render an in delivery checks and all that. It's hard to remember just off the top your head what got serviced lien and I never got it perfected that any notes or better than no night and that's 100% for sure. So, written records, you don't have to do this alone will talk about that on the show today we come back we got some updates on the Jesus labor.

Love that most of all, we would love your calls. You have to walk alone, 866-348-7884 866-34-TRUTH so much more efficient partnership. A little rain dance. Jesus will means when will the mean you know I can only imagine that last never talk about that today on the Christian guy show you were not alone and because Bart had a record of that a written record.

It led in a lot of ways to him writing that song, which is fabulous movie. It's a lot about him and his father, and I can't recommend it highly enough. I've seen that sun signed and it was beautiful.

It was just absolutely beautiful to see that in some weird talk about written records on your car as well that it we also want to tell you you don't have to go it alone.

So if you have that question this morning.

866-34-TRUTH 87884 the number to call in with your any question or comment. Maybe you got something in your life where you thought your loaning. Also in your life today and maybe have it written down in a journal or something but I just think you know how precious is it that God came to to Bart through a Christian counselor in the camp when he was 10 years old and said here start writing things down and he wrote down things that led to all this later inspiration well before the break, I was talking about my journal which I went back and grabbed out this morning early and started looking at it and was told the story confuse Bob little so I don't want to confuse anybody in I was terribly afraid of the dark before I got was just you know one of those things 6 foot five, 250 pounds, but a chicken and DJ did God have been working with me for a while.

Help me get over that which essentially he said one night to me in a Robbie what's the worst thing that can happen, and I supposedly could come in here with a knife and you know Kim and I and Jesus said, what would be so bad about that and through that discussion I came to realize, wait a minute if I died I get to be with Jesus and mean it right what is written, they would date Jesus coming so what you are you afraid of the dark, probably because worst thing a happen is you get to be with me for real. I can only imagine you get the picture. Well, I've been working on that for a couple years.

By the time I started writing in this journal, I started writing a journal right before I got diagnosed with cancer in the thing I don't want to miss is the intimacy of God coming to me and talking. I wasn't alone and that night the very night before I got the worst part of my diagnosis, Jesus laid a check in my pill and I Bob wanted to know was that I just I needed a little clarity.

Airlines Schachter was that Wells Fargo what it was.

It was a dream check.

In other words, I was I was envisioning a check that was there on the pillow when I looked over there was a check.

As far as I can see that the check was a symbol of something else.

And Jesus was saying Robbie paid in full. Your bought your done. You don't have to worry you're not in this alone and and and you are going to be okay and it was an interesting time in my life, but because I have it documented now I can see the timing at the time it may seem like in a long time between seeing the check in getting the diagnosis. But now when I look back at the journal entries I can go out.

This happened here in this happened here and I is just amazing to me how I just totally forgot. I mean it wasn't even I looked at that.

I was like that didn't happen. I wrote it down.

It's right there and in no very good about erased from the memory bank. But I imagine that in your own life right you're standing there your buildings on fire your number that is definitely not alone that day.

It just rings they'll settle down in the presence we felt that day, and many people have heard me talk about it before that the just that the strength which we fail in that in the end there was never a moment when, without well in my head. Now everybody else was wondering how we going to Dave Miller are no as they see it and them in and never ever ever considered that that was the fire burned my place in an the only thing I could say was the a will work on open up tomorrow. They had a camera in the face and a microphone in my hand and with an open up tomorrow. Don't know what you know how a gondola but were going to open up tomorrow and and we did and continued to do so from their own after I entered an interesting have coming to me when I think about your life, Bob God came to me in an airplane and told me to start writing and unfortunately I was obedient and I had that but in your case.

He gave you a really neat record of something that right around Christmas time fuse ago you got sick and your son came on the show and as it was, we have audio record right exactly even of Rob's testimony of what he said that day how God was working with him and you know, just like I have this which is a treasure.

We have an audio treasure. A few precious moments. By the way, if you go to the podcast page Christian Car Guy.com it's it's a few precious moments with Rob Young where he testifies as to what you know he saw a few days but two weeks two weeks, two weeks before he done and we were talking about that the other day because he died on 109. My business is 199 but January 1 and I had both my partner out to start in a given pieces of the business to Rob as his performance and behavior merited such and and then nine days later you he was gone two weeks before he died. He was on the show in my absence and just gave a great testimony about an incident he had handed out in one of the trucks and that the turbo and monad thin and smoke everywhere and firetrucks in total chaos and in ages related that to his life before he found Christ in the he wasn't alone. He was not alone and it is obvious when you heard them talking about it. He had been with God in the end there was a record for all of us to say will know he had that relationship with Christ. How is got done that for you.

Or maybe you got something you want.

Ask us about your property and even update on the Jesus labor love a lot more Christian Car Guy ship coming up, you call us 866-34-TRUTH 874 and you know that I can sing just like that all you heard that's all the mouse and all things are there. That is it is it is and the idea being, just because you have to do by yourself doesn't mean you have to do it alone and so the idea being, not just through life obviously and in and will talk about that in a lot of different ways but also you know when it comes to sit in on how my to get this fixed. How mining and work through this problem with my car and and those kind of things and so that's why were here the Christian Car Guy show and we would love to hear from you. 866-348-7884 866-34-TRUTH and one of the ways that we are constantly reached and I'm so grateful for this to the Jesus labor love the Mets car repair labor for single moms widows families in crisis and coursers lot information on a website about that Jesus labor love how you can get involved. But if you looked yesterday. You see I posted to urgent prayer needs and so here are some ladies that really feel alone, but praise God. They have an opportunity. Really I'm saying. Praise God that they have an opportunity to reach out through our website and fill out an application and this one particularly what came out of Raleigh broke my heart and I'm a read it because it illustrates a tremendous point here a lot of different points actually but it says I need a car. The car I had needed repair was going to have my dad look at it but I got a chance to get a professional to look at. I needed a radiator in the catalytic converter and a coil pack to fix it. I just only had the money for the radiator and the call time so I got the money and paid it. It wasn't much, but I thought he would. He would charge on top of that, but always I was excited to know I was back in business and I could go back to work and after he fixed it.

I started driving the car went to the get went to get gas and smoke started to come out from under the hood of the car started to shake and at this time, the mechanic guy. Excuse me and I call the mechanic guy and he said he was in a come actually ransom our errands all the stuff and come help me. While ours passed still no mechanic. He text me later that night that he'll come in the morning.

Still no mechanic nine next morning all make a very long story short, she did this guy never comes to help answer she takes in the Nissan store and they tell her that she's blown head gasket and that the engine needs to be gone through, which is way more expensive than it would be to replace the car and so here she is she still making payments on this car and she says I'm without a karma, mother of a four-year-old autistic son to be five in a week equals therapy appointments every week and she has no car but it sounds like the head gasket with the issue that blew at the radiator to begin with. Is is possible, but the bottom line was that unfortunately he had when the Nissan store looked at it turned out that the lower radiator hose had not been reattached. And so when she took out that morning all, the claimant ran out of the car and the Nissan store pointed out that the reason the car actually blew a head gasket right then and there was because the lower radiator hose admin attached while so here's what happens in and as it turns out, this particular mechanic is a mechanic and a Toyota shop so he works for a dealer but he didn't repair it through the dealership. See, this was out of his garage and as I told her, and here's the trade. It is the difficult situation is when you get somebody like that to work on your car and they don't have a sign out front. They don't have a business that means they don't have liability insurance to see if anybody else worked on the car. Bob, if you at iron worked on that car and when it was in our shop.

We have product liability insurance.

It would pay to replace that motor because when you don't read you know when you don't hookup the Lord radiator hose. You're obviously at fault for the reason that this car blew up right, absolutely.

I mean yeah but she has no recourse because he's got no insurance and a course he's going to take responsibility.

So you she could sue, but you know that's not anything Armenta advises a Christian to go see somebody but you see the difficult situation and here she is, is sometimes when we cut corners thinking with this guy's gonna help me out before you pay somebody to help you out.

Do you have insurance.

Can you cover this in case there's a problem. Those are all things that we all can learn from but also it's a tremendous prayer request for us that we need somebody in the Raleigh theory to donate a car. This lady desperately needs a car. She's obviously making payments on this card is broken and and she's just out a car so were not talking about a brand-new car to donate what you got this person out there somewhere that you're not using, it's a pretty decent car, consider going to Christian Car Guy.com and donating that car and along the same lines, we also lady a widow. She's sweet old lady and in Des Moines Iowa so were in that area to we need a car. She said a similar situation, blown head gasket turned up crack in the block on the Ford escape and and she's totally without a car and she was out in the rural area. So if you're in the Des Moines area and you know somebody has a car wearing the same need their reading of the Jesus labor love and and and there are shows you how to donate a car. It's a 501(c)(3) so it is completely tax-deductible.

You know help outage taxes next year.

I know April 15 to miss you too late last year, but we still got this year or course if you just want to donate to the Jesus labor love. We had literally dozens of other applications last week that I can talk about and there are lots of tax benefits to donating the car the other lots of benefits and we have Jerry is in Huntersville, North Carolina jury are on the Christian Car Guy sugar morning Jerry and I have on my 2011 word couple of years, like we were in Canada that we get, you know, for tires that were used quite a few months… But anyway I need tired though I have the original Michelin on the air. I not sure where to go to look for my gift topic can fill for Mike Canada on our local Ford dealer get an idea but I don't know how good of a tire. I wanted good tires because I do I do maybe 75 mile week 800 syllogistic at like a lot of things. It's a matter of opinion when it comes to tears, but I will tell you my father. He is a believer, Michelin, and if you've had good luck with Michelin's and it sounds like you have. You know it's it's pretty hard to go wrong if that's affordable for you with the Michelin tire can see they go along. Mileage is in unity get something that was originally meant to be on the floor like that. That's it. That's a really good tire. There's no doubt about it. There are other brands are handy, but you know the nice thing is that's enough as I'm listening. I think that's the one your husband tick and and so you know I would try to stay with that when you brought on from a different school and tires like that hundred dollars for the other name on it going. Not sure what brand they are would take that they other compatible or you know how long you plan on keeping the car if you think you're gonna possibly have it for another 60,000 miles to Wesleyan you can look at your history and see that the nations did carry a 60,000 miles and they would probably do it again where if you get something a lesser tire you may end up buying two cents to get your 60,000 miles. It's in Embassy. I was always around me been a salvage yard or junkyard guy we always had plenty of previously enjoyed tires and I and and I led and opposed to putting them on pretty much anything that I dread that was because that wasn't my discount.

Gina and that them if you can like say the nations can carry you further attend to. Most of the time and just basin from your history if you got 60,000 out of the first set your driving habits are in a conducive to high mileage on tires and just keep them rotated and that I would.

I would and again I'll be happy to do it for you if you email me your Christian Car Guy.com and give me the size but and I can go to to three different sites and shop the price because you know that four dealer may be a little more expensive than someplace else that you could get it done there in Charlotte. I don't know. Without doing that, but I would check one or two other places, which is pretty easy to do online anymore.

You just put in the kind of car, and it figures for you Jared that we got to go to every Jerry. I'm sorry thank you for calling. God bless you a lot I know where to go all right.

Have a great day Christian Car Guy ship things just like me but wears on it today and clearly you can see, that is his career is continued to know that he is not alone. Aziz I think that that song is just genius but anyway and powerful.

Just because you have to do it by yourself doesn't mean you have to do it alone. Today on the Christian card I show we would love to hear your situation like we just heard from Jerry in Charlotte, which by the waves during the break. I had a chance to look up a few things and Bob and I were discussing it. You know it's nice at the 40 was taking care of Jerry and is nice and she's doing he's doing or oil change, and undoubtedly keep up with the maintenance but as a second alternative just to get a price to see her much Ford dealers charging you versus somebody else. I looked it up and there are several NTB human national tire and batteries there in Charlotte, which carry Michelin tires and I've had really good luck with them with the Jesus labor love other people that have had go over there.

You met might be a good place just to get a second opinion on what the tires would be for your car generates NTB there. We got shopping is key.

Yeah, we got rootless is in Charlotte Rufus you're on the Christian Car Guy sugar morning that I get your name right that's for one brief shining morning there was a family again which got force their horny 13 BMW are what I change my mind. Great and I link it does not expect to keep break after a change in April on the brakes making quickly can. I'm not sure that great. You Yemen average of 30. Usually when you hear a click click in the wheel area of the car. How many miles are on okay I want to advise you first thing to make sure you get the wheels back on time I was visiting with a gentleman last weekend and he had just bought a vehicle from a guy and he's he's a guy that gets vehicles and and sales and pretty quick and he got it. She insulted just made a little money and didn't even check the gas stop economies is that they only thing wrong with this was the wheel was not tied the lug nuts were not on tight and it was making a clicking sound and he was thinking.

He is either universal joint of the rear in and it was something as simple as the wheel was not put back on tight applicant.

Sometime the wheel, and over the hub comes in. It gets a little crooked. There and it's pretty easy to do that where the wheel is non-tight so that's a really good thing to check it out and I make sure that wheels tight a place to start. Anyway, just to be sure, and then the CV joints is another place where it might click on the wheel. All you know, pretty easy to to grab hold the axle that is behind the wheel bearing and polemic, some to see if you got some play in it, you'll you'll feel the clicker if you turn the wheel and it clicks worse and the wheel is tight like Bob said, then there is pretty likely chance that it's it is the CV joint one of the great, but I'm not really sure on anything going on as an IQ I would check make sure the lug nuts. All type which is pretty easy to do and once you've done that and and if is your hearing that Quicken especially when you turn the wheel you can you can actually most all change places.

Whatever could check something like that for you Rufus about it from and this is a front-wheel-drive BMW correct. Our buddy God bless thank you for Conan to make you have a great all right 866. We still could take another call or two, we got a minute we would love to hear from you highlighted is asked 348-7884 you like what I'm happy that I actually had some experience there in a just and test on this Saturday because if he gets much further than that. It kinda gets erased in that because I don't take night I can tell you that I have. We were talking earlier about the importance of having product liability insurance absolutely will. That's one place that is is a garage owner week we paid out a number of claims for the technician would get the wheel crooked and not get the wheel back on and the people be going on the road and seeing their will follow as they come off this past March really nobody was ever hurt I've had I've known of two or three cars. This was a this is with the technician knows what he's doing and get that thing on crooked and not get that type and then you know it wobbles often as dangerous in some vehicles had that things like a Dan LPN on the eight Luke wheels right that has to be in the right position in the end that's just the problem that's sometimes you want to overthink it in think bigger problem you know when it's actually just a small problem to begin with, but that that's going to grow with time and is never harmful to get a second opinion and that's the part of you know is we've been saying all away through the show, even though you eat your by yourself. It does not mean you have to do it alone and and this is an interesting point that I would save it for me. I got a great deal out of the inner I can only imagine moving and seeing that journal and realizing how got it shown me through this journal and I actually have now, dozens of them. You know, because like I keep them in time and time again. I find that it's amazing the memories that have been robbed for me.

The prayers that I prayed for things that I'd forgotten I prayed for at and things that are cherished are there because we keep a written record and so you know keeping a written record of those intimate times with God and things that he came through for you or and in your case you got audio record. You gotta bear right out there again. Rob's girlfriend when he passing sheet took part of the radio clip of Rob. Rob was on the show and its installed. I don't know exactly the technology they do that with. But I mashed the little bears hand and I get to hear my son's voice and the tenant to do it too often because I don't want to wear down or anything because I wanted to be with me forever. But the he's quoting Isaiah 44 as I recall exactly 55. As you know better than I did because utility was. He was talking about that day that out of the trees were crying out and he could see in God's hand and what he was he was doing and you got it right there on your dresser. Absolutely any time in the day and you know is just something so special and and we think we carrying the stuff alone and and some that so many times in and we don't realize that if we just you know see some counsel for this. Colin handed to Kristin Kardashian about a car problem or are just asking a friend.

You know it. I'm got a friend recently lost his son and I reached out to them right away telling right after that you'll be okay for a while but then you'll see it some really dark times and when you hit those dark times. Please call me because Fran reached out to me and tell me the same thing and it probably saved my life in your not alone. You're not alone may had to do it by yourself that you don't have to do it alone. I know that I say that I used to yeah that's the deal is the end and again wherever we can keep a record of those things are keep record repairs are all good things. We thank you for listing the Christian part I show today and remembers Jesus walked everywhere he went, got all done in 33 years and this week.

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